▼ The Battle for Dignity (Series) ▼ MISCELLANEOUS WRITINGS | 2018 EDITION | VOLUME 41 ○ ○ ○ I've already addressed the Bill Cosby rape case here , as well as in Part 1  and  2 of How To Burst Your Filter Bubble .     However you feel about his conviction being overturned, this article — originally published in 2018 — is for Black men smart enough to seek advice, and importantly, act on it. Parents too, who are adept at, or students of, the art of focusing on what matters, and ditching pettiness and toxic, opinionated, celebrity gossip.     As a Black man from a family always late to seek or act on good advice, I can't stress the latter enough.     Take good advice, and you'll escape Loserville . Basically, the wrong path, in any context. Unavoidable consequences and all.     Don't, and you'll forget that a woman's dignity is just as non-negotiable as your own. And with that, never get entangled, entrapped and/or, as rapper Meek Mill did,